Psychosexual Therapy
When something disrupts the language of pleasure, it can leave you feeling disconnected and very alone with it. Specialist psychosexual therapy since 2007. London Diploma qualified.
Learn more →
Ditch the vanilla
I'm here to help you
I'm here to help you
create something delicious
I'm here to help you create a relationship that's as unique and delicious as you are. Whether you're exploring ethical non-monogamy, BDSM or kink, or simply looking to add some spice to your existing relationship, I'll help you navigate the journey with confidence and joy.
Whether you're flying solo or bringing your partner(s) along, all configurations are welcome here. No judgment, no need to explain or justify yourselves.
My approach is all about
Openness, fun
Openness, fun
and empowerment
Openness and Acceptance: No judgment here. I embrace all forms of love and relationships. Our time together is a safe haven where you can be your authentic self, quirks and all.
Fun and Playfulness: Therapy doesn't have to be serious and stuffy. We'll infuse our sessions with humour, creativity, and a sense of adventure. Exploring your love life should be a joyful experience.
Empowerment and Growth: I'll equip you with the tools and insights you need to create a fulfilling and authentic relationship, whatever flavour you choose. More confident, more empowered, ready to embrace the deliciousness of your unique love story.
Here's what's on the menu
A tasting menu
A tasting menu
for your love life
We'll dive into whatever you're bringing and work through it together.
Book a Free Consultation- Communication Conundrums Talking about sex and relationships can feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness — even with the people we love most. Add in conversations about whips, chains and restraints and the anxiety and embarrassment can rocket. I'll help you transform those potentially cringe-worthy conversations into opportunities for deeper connection and intimacy. We'll work on expressing your desires, boundaries and needs with clarity and confidence — turning those "uh-oh" moments into "aha!" moments.
- Lifestyle Exploration Feeling curious about venturing beyond the traditional relationship model? We'll dive into the world of polyamory, swinging, BDSM, and other alternative relationship styles. We'll explore the nuances of each, discuss the potential challenges and rewards, and help you discover what truly aligns with your values and desires. Think of it as a delicious tasting menu for your love life.
- Jealousy Jitters The green-eyed monster can be particularly tricky to navigate in non-monogamous dynamics. We'll explore the roots of your jealousy, develop strategies for managing those tricky emotions, and build a foundation of trust and security. The aim? Transforming that green-eyed monster into a purring kitten of contentment.
- Setting Boundaries Boundaries are like the sprinkles on your relationship sundae. They add that extra layer of deliciousness and ensure everyone feels safe and satisfied. Together we'll create clear, compassionate boundaries that honour everyone's needs and desires. Think of it as crafting a recipe for respect, communication, and mutual pleasure.
- Spicy Sex Life Want to turn up the heat? We'll explore ways to spice up your sex life, from mastering the art of sexual communication to discovering new fantasies and desires. We'll discuss safe play practices and ensure everyone feels empowered and comfortable to explore their sensual selves.
“
Ready to ditch the vanilla and create a relationship sundae that's truly yours?
Sam Jones — The Art of Intimacy
Getting started
Simple from the
Simple from the
very first step
No lengthy intake forms. No waiting months. No having to explain what a safeword is.
1
Free 20-min consultation
A free telephone conversation to chat, see if we're a good fit, and figure out where to start. No pressure, just good vibes.
2
Solo, couple or group
Come alone to explore your own desires and identity, or bring your partner(s). All configurations are welcome, no explanation needed.
3
Choose how you work
Online via video call (Google Meet, Zoom, WhatsApp, your choice) or face-to-face on the Wirral. Flexible to fit your life.
4
Work at your own pace
No fixed programme, no imposed timeline. You set the pace and we review progress together as we go.
Questions
The ones people
The ones people
Google at midnight
Answered honestly. No jargon.
What does GSRD mean?
GSRD stands for Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity. It's a non-pathologising framework for working with people whose identities, relationships or sexual interests fall outside mainstream norms — including kink, BDSM, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and diverse gender identities. I hold a specialist Pink Therapy GSRD Diploma.
Do you judge kink or BDSM?
Absolutely not. Kink and BDSM are treated as valid, healthy expressions of sexuality. Nothing is pathologised or treated as a problem unless you decide it is. I have over a decade of specialist experience in this area and I'm part of these communities myself.
Can I come alone, or do I need a partner?
Both. Many people come alone to explore their own desires, curiosities or identity. Others come as couples, throuples, or larger configurations. Whatever works for you works for me.
Do you work with polyamorous relationships?
Yes — fully and affirmingly. Polyamory, open relationships, swinging, relationship anarchy and all other ethical non-monogamous structures are welcome here without judgment or the need to explain yourselves.
Also under services
Other ways I can help
Relationship Therapy
Feeling like your love story could use a new chapter? I help couples break free from tired patterns and create something more exciting and fulfilling.
Learn more →Gender Therapy
Feeling like your identity is more of a choose-your-own-adventure story than a pre-written script? Let's celebrate your unique gender journey together.
Learn more →